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Rusu, P.P., Apostu, M.N., Turliuc, M.N. et al. Positive, but not negative emotions, predict intimacy in couple relationships: a daily diary study. Curr Psychol 42, 27758–27770 (2023). https://doi.org/10.1007/s12144-022-03756-x
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