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The Role of Gender in the Generation of Stalking Scripts

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The focus of this research was to examine the influence of gender on college students’ stalking scripts. One hundred fifty-four participants from a university located in the southern United States generated a narrative account of what occurs during stalking. Women were expected to generate more examples of ambiguous, non-aggressive, behaviors than were men, as well as to generate more coping strategies on the part of the target. Results overall revealed a high degree of similarity in content of generated stalking behaviors as a function of gender. However, women generated hyper-intimacy behaviors and mediated contact as part of their scripts significantly more often than did men. Women were also significantly more likely to generate a coping strategy than men.

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Yanowitz, K.L., Yanowitz, J.L. The Role of Gender in the Generation of Stalking Scripts. Sex Roles 66, 366–377 (2012). https://doi.org/10.1007/s11199-010-9867-2

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