The retention of calcium oxalate monohydrate (COM) crystals on cell membranes is pivotal in kidney stone formation. However, the mechanisms underlying COM attachment to neutral lipid membranes remain unclear. In this study, we demonstrate that COM exhibits size-selective adhesion to fluid lipid membranes composed of lipids with distinct sizes. Specifically, the (100) facet of COM induces the formation of new domains and establishes strong adhesion in the 18:1 (Δ9-Cis) PC (DOPC) membrane, while the (010) facet induces domains with strong adhesion in the 16:0-14:0 PC membrane. This selectivity is linked to the compatibility of the area per lipid in DOPC with the unit cell area of the (100) facet and the area per lipid in 16:0-14:0 PC with the (010) facet. Our Raman spectroscopic analyses reveal that the lipid acyl chains within these induced domains exhibit a higher degree of ordering compared to the typical fluid state of the membrane. This ordered structural alignment, combined with the lateral size-matching effect, suggests the potential formation of molecular arrays within the lipid bilayer that are in harmony with the lattice dimension of COM. To elucidate the strong adhesion between calcium oxalate and the phospholipid head group in the absence of a direct molecular structural correspondence, we propose that crystal water associated with COM can form hydrogen bonds with the phospholipid head group. Using structure visualization software, we demonstrate the feasibility of such hydrogen bonding networks. The formation of this network could serve to stabilize and enhance the attachment of COM to the lipid membrane. This mediation by water molecules offers a plausible explanation for the pronounced affinity at the interface.