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The aim of this paper is to investigate the impact of an extended lifespan of parents on middle-aged women and men from a demographic, sociological and psychological perspective. Based on Swiss data, three main research questions are investigated and discussed in three different sections: (a) How far has the common lifespan of children and parents been extended and how does it affect kinship structures? (b) How accurate is the term of “sandwich generation” in this context? (c) Which are the psychological concomitants—in terms of filial maturity—of being reinvolved with one’s old parents in mid-life? The demographic analyses illustrate a considerable extension of common lifespan of children and parents. Combined with low fertility rates this results in rapidly increasing parent-support ratios. A sociological approach analysing the concept of “sandwich generation” indicates that, for women, a new kind of double burden (professional work and family care) is more widespread than being ‘sandwiched’ between the youngest and the oldest generation. Finally, in the third section, results are reported from a longitudinal study of middle-aged persons living in different social contexts (such as living or not living with a partner and/or children) on the intrapsychic concomitants of becoming reinvolved with one’s parents. The response patterns reveal a considerable intergenerational ambivalence. Although the possibility to help old parents depends heavily on living context and is a question of available resources, the willingness to help is also closely related to psychological variables such as attachment.
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This research was supported by the Swiss National Science Foundation (Project-Nr. 5004-047741/1/Perrig-Chiello and Höpflinger 2001)
In the 2nd wave only four out of seven dimensions of filial maturity were assessed: filial help, filial helpfulness, filial autonomy, parental expectations
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Perrig-Chiello, P., Höpflinger, F. Aging parents and their middle-aged children: demographic and psychosocial challenges. Eur J Ageing 2, 183–191 (2005). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10433-005-0003-z
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